How to Learn Self Confidence – Believe in Yourself
November 10, 2018
Do you know what is the major reason of failures in life….? It’s lack of trust on our own abilities and self confidence. Here are ways to develop self confidence.
Are you struggling for self confidence too….?
What if I told you that self confidence isn’t about being awesome, or fearless or even believing in yourself? Self confidence is a good feeling about yourself and your capabilities. So, if you’re a self confident person, it simply means that you feel good about who you are, and you also feel good about your ability to achieve things you want to achieve. Digging a little deeper, you can think of self-confidence as being a good feeling about yourself and your capabilities that:
Comes from the way you think about yourself and your capabilities
Naturally makes you happier and more successful in life
Can remain in any situation or circumstance, even without support from others or without material possessions
With these qualities, self confidence is something that benefits you in a powerful way, because not only is it a good feeling that naturally makes you happier and more successful, but it’s also something that you can develop and maintain in any situation or circumstance. This is because it is self confidence that comes from within you, not confidence that comes from other people or things that are external to you.
Why Is It So Important To Love Yourself and Be Confident?
This may seem more important to some than others, but self-love is one of the best things you can do for yourself. Being in love with yourself provides you with self-confidence, self-worth and it will generally help you feel more positive. You may also find that it is easier for you to fall in love with life once you have learned to love yourself first. If you can learn to love yourself, you will be much happier and will learn how to best take care of yourself. When you are truly in love with yourself and happy, you should stop comparing yourself to others so much and should find yourself more confident, not worrying as much about what others think.
We all want to feel confident, we know what benefits it brings, but how do you become confident if you’re currently not? A non-confident person should do following things to build self confidence…
Learning is a great way – Learning new things stretches yourself, keeps your mind active and most definitely boosts your confidence.
Get crystal clear on the things that truly matter to you – If these things are not in your life, you’ll need to bring them in. For example, if your daily work routine is currently as dull as dishwater – but you’d like it to be fun – then do something about it.
Celebrate your big and small wins – Look at a great (or small) win or success you’ve experienced and give yourself credit for your part in it. Recognizing your achievements is not egotistical, it’s healthy.
Do one thing each day that makes you smile (on the inside or on the outside) – This could be something as simple as sending a thank you email to a colleague that has been helpful to you – or leaving a surprise present for your partner that they’ll discover when they wake up. Life shouldn’t be drudgery, but we all need to make the effort to keep it light, loving and fun.
Stop playing different roles just to impress others – Stop playing different roles and squeezing yourself into boxes based on what you think people expect you to act like.I can’t stress this enough – be your AUTHENTIC self. The one who knows what to do, and loves what they do. It’s easy to find this part of yourself, as it’s inherent in your hobbies and your close friendships. If you can bring this authenticity into your work life, you’ll be surprised at how positively others will react to you.
Always recognize that you are meant for any tough situations – Recognize that you’re more than a match for any situation you might find yourself in – no matter how tough the going gets.We all love movies like Die Hard where ordinary people are driven to super-ordinary feats. But here’s the rub: you can be your own action hero. Whatever the situation, meet it head on and overcome it. Keep in mind the classic phrase: “Where there’s a will there’s a way.”
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