Positivity

Peace of Mind…

 

Peace of mind is a state of mental and emotional calmness, happiness and freedom, and no worries…!!

In today’s life, we are loosing our peace of mind and the most important reason for this is High Expectations..

When you have visited this page, what are you expecting from this blog?
Let me guess.. you are expecting for something that can help you get rid of constant disappointments or you are looking for a quick fix to manage your expectations….Right? This was highly expected… This is what we always do, whether it is any personal relationship or professional decision, the first thing that we do is, we start expecting… Throughout the day, expectations are at play…We always expect a lot from all the people around us, things around us, day to day situations and from life as well. And when our expectations do not get fulfilled, we get disappointed, sad and stressed and at the end of the day we loose our peace of mind…

Now you must be thinking what we should actually do….?

Let me tell you one secret of getting  ‘Peace of Mind’… 
I am not at all saying that do not expect anything… Because that is not at all easy, but we can control the results of our expectations.. For eg. If you love someone a lot, then you are definitely expecting the love with similar intensity from the other person. And when that other person failed to love you the way you want, you will get disappointed and finally loose the peace of your mind. Here we always do mistake, just because you expect something, doesn’t mean that the other person will behave exactly the way you want. In such situation, we should be able control our expectations… though that person does not love you with your intensity, you should feel happy that you are from those blessed persons who are getting love from the same person you love, no matter it is very much or less than your expectations. There are lots of people who don’t get the love from a person they love. So feel the happiness, not disappointment. So that you can enjoy your relationship more this way. And suppose if other person loves you exactly like your expectations then feel that it is a bonus, and at the same time do not expect that that person will continue to fulfill all your expectations, otherwise you will again end up with disappointment.

There are millions of such examples, which can explain that we should expect realistically, and should not let our happiness depend upon fulfillment of that expectations. If we get whatever we are expecting then it is a blessing of God. But don’t consider that you will be blessed forever in life. There are so many examples from successful people who actually overcome this concept of ‘EXPECTATIONS’ and they have became really successful in life and importantly they have found the real PEACE OF MIND… Mr. Stephen William Hawking is the best example of it.. During a 2004 interview of Stephen Hawking, a reporter asked him how he manages to keep his spirits up and stay cheerful. He said, ‘Life would be tragic if it weren’t funny. My expectations were reduced to zero when I was 21. Everything since then has been a bonus.’ 

So, my dear friends, think on it very carefully… and if you need our help to get the ‘PEACE OF MIND’, then we are happy to do so.. please mail your concern here …

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